My Restless Feet

Wena has always appeared delicate and childish.  She giggles and laughs at the silliest things and like me, decision making is often painstaking.  I think we should both get a book on how to be decisive but then again we wouldn’t be able to decide which book it would be.  Behind the facade of merriment though is a deep sadness and pain that have just become more obvious to everyone recently.  What’s not so obvious is the amount of courage and strength she has.  The past few days made me realize that her fortitude is greater than most people.

I don’t like sad events and tear jerking moments so as much as possible I steer clear of that with her. I try to make her smile and laugh as much as I could if only for a moment.  I see no sense in talking about it since talking makes you remember and remembering hurts like hell.  I don’t talk to her about it and knowing her, she wouldn’t want any unsolicited probing.  So this is my way of letting her know that she’s one of the bravest persons I know. I’m proud of how she’s grown in a matter of days, proud of how she’s taking care of herself and that I’m always here even if I have dada.

Life has a way of bringing out the divine power of the human spirit so that we can carry on during times of great pain and loss.  It is that spine that we never thought we got.  Like a reservoir of untapped energy just waiting for the time when our regular everyday energy fails us.  At least we have time as our ally, time heals all wounds till it will no longer hurt.

Wena there are a number of us who care and love you, you won’t be alone ever!

In this aesthetically driven society where there is an available remedy for any beauty flaw wether from birth or acquired; you would be considered at fault if you don’t do something about how you look. Let’s face it, when you meet someone, you are initally drawn to them based on what you see and unless you’ve had an interaction with them to know if they are nice as well as good looking, your judgement will be most likely influenced by their physical appearance. That is why a moderate level of vanity is never wrong.

Over the counter treatments for beauty problems are selling like hotcakes. The effect of these products though is very limited so when it comes to make overs, it is best to seek people who are experts in the field. With that, let’s turn our attention to the rising popularity of cosmetic surgery, it is by far the fastest most effective way to get one’s desired image.

When is surgery the answer? If you have tried pretty much everything but you’re not getting the needed result or if you are looking for a grand make over to improve yourself and meet realistic goals, then find a trusted Doctor who can discuss the procedure. It is also very important that you inform the Doctor or any medical conditions to avoid complications. There are of course some medical conditions that may disqualify you, again caonsult you Doctor first. Plastic surgery blog has the list of several procedures available.

Who qualifies for a cosmetic surgery? Almost all healthy indivduals, men and women alike who can afford the surgery are good candidates but Doctors will always have the final say after they have assessed and evaluated potential patients wether it’s a go or not. Plastic surgery information is available at cosmetic surgery blog to help those who are considering some change in their size or shape. Don’t rush into cosmetic surgery, talk to your friends and family about it but most of all, it is recommended that you ask yourself if this is really what you want and if plastic surgery will make you happier and more fulfilled. If the answer is yes then congratulations you are on the right track!